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Older men dating younger women is a pretty conventional stereotype—but younger men are in pretty high demand as well. Have you considered dating a guy 10, 15, or even 20 years your junior? What would your friends think? What would you talk about? If you're ready to take the age-gap plunge, read on to learn everything you need to know, complete with tips from expert dating coach John Keegan. You'll also find out about some things you should consider before you open up the age range on your dating app account.
Dating a Younger Man
- Younger men have a lot more sexual energy and are interested in pleasing their partners, which can be a real benefit. They're also likely to have less baggage.
- However, if you're a lot older than your partner, you might have an imbalance of power that could cause problems. You also might have trouble understanding each other.
- If you decide to date a younger man, don't feel pressured to act younger or pretend to be something you're not. Embrace your age!
Steps
Expert Q&A
Tips
References
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