I can't talk to him without getting nervous 💗
I'm sure I'm not the one but I need tips. I always say "I can do it" then I give up the second I see him!
I don't know what to talk to him about... The only time I see him is at our homeschool group and I just have no idea what to say 💡
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I don't know what to talk to him about... The only time I see him is at our homeschool group and I just have no idea what to say 💡
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If you want to feel less nervous around your crush, try starting small: next time you see him, plan to sit near him, even if you don't talk. The time after that, plan to say hello or smile. Gradually work up to a full conversation (and you can start with small talk here: "How was your weekend?" "Did you finish the homework?").
Not only will it be easier to overcome your anxiety in baby steps, but each friendly interaction (a smile, a greeting) will give him a chance to respond. Getting a smile or a "hello" back from him may give you more confidence to keep talking to him. Good luck!
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Not only will it be easier to overcome your anxiety in baby steps, but each friendly interaction (a smile, a greeting) will give him a chance to respond. Getting a smile or a "hello" back from him may give you more confidence to keep talking to him. Good luck!
Chat I got a crush, he is so cuteeeeee But no way i cant talk to him. he's so pop but not me :(
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Oh My Days! I have the same experience, I see my crush and I tell myself that ''I'm going up to him and just say hi'' but then the second I see him I just want to hide. My crush is pop also and I'm not , and he's always surrounded by his friends which always makes it soooo frustrated.
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Hey guys it's been YEARS!!!!! 😦 I am so much more confident and I can get a guy now 😂 I went on a cruise ship recently and am going on one again soon but last time I realized "I've never met these people before and I'm probably never going to see them again so why I care what they think" and I am so happy I had that thought because after days of being myself guys were fighting over me!!😭✋ Confidence is key- easy to say but hard to achieve. Just be yourself you only live on earth once!!
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omg girl i totally get where you’re coming from! i have a crush that’s older than me and i can never talk to him either lol. maybe like have a friend or sibling talk to him first, so u can know his interests and maybe even what he thinks of u? that sometimes helps me :)
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Yeah! You know boys these days they just minding their own business if you be hi how are you or try talking to them or whatever they will ignore and probably just bad mouth and be like she likes me ewww or you know. You just gotta let them come to you.
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