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Trying To Figure HIM Out!

WikiKangarooReader879
WikiKangarooReader879
03/18/26 5:34pm
Okay, I chose this page since I want a guy's opinion on this problem. Is it mean to run subtle tests on this guy I like to see if he's worth my time? He is my cousin's best friend, and my aunt (not that cousin's mom actually) gives her daughter, me, and my cousin and his friend = THIS GUY a ride. So, he failed the first test; I sat in the back of the car, my bro cousin and his friend in the middle row, and both of them closed the side doors before I came out. BUT he passed the second test! I "lost my pen" (it was in my pocket lol) and the guy I like stopped his conversation with my cousin to hand me his pen, hold eye contact for a beat, smile, and then watch me write with his pen, and then he turned back to my cousin. Is it just rude to test him knowing? I also don't know if I like him for sure, that's why I'm seeing if he's even worth trying for. I'm a homeschooled girl, so this a very hard situation for me. Please, help me. I will take any advice I can get <3
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03/19/26 8:05pm
Go for him what’s the worst that can happen?
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