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What are his intentions for prolonged stares at me

WikiIbisChaser659
WikiIbisChaser659
01/08/26 7:28pm
He's a colleague, we've been for months now. I've caught him many times staring at me but he never says anything instead he looks away and pretends as if he wasn't staring... His stares are alarming now because it's like he just can't help himself when I'm around, I always catch him... He acts very nervous and jittery around me. It's like he's imprisoned by my present.
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Steve 59
Steve 59
03/10/26 7:14am
It means he likes you. We guys sometimes don't even realize we're staring which is why we look away so quickly cause we don't want y'all to think we have bad intentions.
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