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Why do I put people ahead of me?

Evie1234
Evie1234
10/31/25 6:40pm
On the quiz, it said I light myself on fire to keep others warm, and it is not wrong. I was having a horrible day yesterday, about to cry at school, but I still made sure my friends were okay. I drop everything for them, and I feel like they are taking advantage of that... How do I stop? I just want to have good mental health again...
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That_one_trans_kid
That_one_trans_kid
11/13/25 1:49am
I know what you mean. I do that a lot too. SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVITY!!!! that's the best way to get your mental health up. I know I sound like a grandpa but seriously, the more happiness you bring into your life, the more happy you will be dude. It's not always easy but you got this dude!
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