What Are the Toxic Traits of a Pisces Man?

Learn how to spot and deal with the negative traits of a Pisces man

Co-authored by Angel Eyedealism and Annabelle Reyes

Last Updated: September 28, 2025 Fact Checked

There are positives and negatives to every zodiac sign, and this is definitely true of Pisces (February 19 - March 20). Ruled by Neptune, this intuitive, dreamy water sign is full of empathy and sensitivity, but on the flip side, Pisces can be a bit moody, melancholy, and inconsistent. If you’re dating a Pisces man or have a crush on one and are curious about their negative characteristics, you’ve come to the right place. We’ve consulted Manhattan-based astrologist Angel Eyedealism for the inside scoop on Pisces and compiled a thorough list of Pisces men’s potential toxic traits, so keep reading!

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Sensitive

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They’re extremely sensitive to criticism, and they tend to feel like a victim.^{[1]
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Research source}This can be tough on romantic partners, who might feel like they’re walking on eggshells.

Sensitivity can be both a strength and a weakness. You can’t change it, but you can understand it and adapt together. If you’re dealing with a sensitive man, validate his feelings while reminding him that you’re not trying to attack.^{[2]
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Moody

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They can be melancholy sometimes. If left unresolved, it may bring down the moods of the people around them.^{[3]
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If you’re dealing with a moody Pisces man, let him know you care, and give him space if he needs it. If you think he's struggling with depression, encourage him to seek out treatment right away.

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Ghosting

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In fact, as expert astrologer Angel Eyedealism explains, Pisces is “the sign that can ghost better than any other.” They're “all about vibes and instincts,” so if they feel like they’ve caught a bad vibe, they run for the hills rather than staying to figure things out.^{[4]
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Angel Eyedealism
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If you’re dealing with being ghosted by a Pisces man, it’s completely normal to feel hurt. Remember, people ghost for all kinds of reasons, and it has nothing to do with how special you are!^{[5]
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Try reciting positive affirmations to show yourself some kindness and build up self-love as you move forward.

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Private

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When he’s getting to know you, he may spend the entire conversation asking about you.^{[6]
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Research source} Although this focus on you can be flattering, you may feel frustrated that he isn't opening up yet.

If you’re getting to know a Pisces man, be patient with him. Once he trusts you, a Pisces man will be super open and emotionally present. It just takes a bit longer for him to get there!

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Daydreaming

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Ruled by Neptune, the planet of illusion, Pisceans have rich fantasy lives.^{[7]
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Research source} They spend a lot of time daydreaming, and they may miss out on amazing real connections because they’re stuck imagining fantasy ones.^{[8]
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If you have a crush on a Pisces man, be bold and tell him how you feel. This could snap him out of his daydreams and show him that an amazing partner is right in front of him!

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Flaky

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Because of their dreamy, scatter-brained energy, Pisces men may show up late to plans or forget about them altogether.^{[9]
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Research source}If you’re dealing with a flaky Pisces man, remind yourself that it’s not because he doesn’t care. Try suggesting that he keeps a daily planner, or send him a reminder text when you have plans.If you’re dating a Pisces man who is always on time, this is a great sign! He’s likely come up with a good system to keep track of his commitments.

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Clingy

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When Pisces men fall in love, they fall in love deeply and want to be super close to their partners.^{[10]
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Research source} In some cases, this intensity can leave their partners feeling suffocated.

If you’re dealing with a clingy Pisces man, don’t be afraid to tell him you need a bit of space. Remind him that this is not a rejection of him, and that alone time is necessary for healthy relationships.^{[11]
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Indulgent

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It can be difficult to feel things as deeply as Pisceans do, so it’s no surprise that they look to things like alcohol, comfort foods, or even drugs for an escape. When this becomes excessive, it can take a toll on their relationships.

If you want to help a Pisces man cut back on alcohol, try out a 2 week sober challenge together. Make delicious mocktails or check out sober events in your area to keep things exciting and fun!

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No Boundaries

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They'll go out of their way for others at the expense of their own mental health.^{[12]
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If you’re dealing with a people-pleasing Pisces man, encourage him to set healthy boundaries with the people around him.If the Pisces man in your life has healthy boundaries with people, this is definitely a green flag! It’s a sign that he’s done the work to combat his people-pleasing nature.

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Flirtatious

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Like all water signs, Pisceans love connecting emotionally with people. A Pisces man might take this too far and connect with someone who isn't his partner. This can be hurtful even if he isn't physically unfaithful.^{[14]
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If you're entering a relationship with a Pisces man, have a conversation early on about what constitutes cheating for you. Coming up with a definition together can help you avoid misunderstandings.^{[15]
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Research source}If you’re dating a Pisces man who is careful not to flirt with others, this is a great sign of self-awareness. It also shows that he is serious about being respectful toward you.

Join the Discussion...

What are red flags in Pisces men?

Julia Topaz
Astrologer

Pisces men tend to be soft, dreamy, and romantic, but just because they’re romantic doesn’t mean they want a committed relationship. Many Pisces men love the idea of love, but they struggle to turn it into a long-term reality. They can be elusive and prefer escaping into their own world, rather than committing. If you're interested in a Pisces man, look for concrete actions, rather than just getting swept up in the romance.