Your dream girl is out there waiting for you, but who is she, exactly? Is she strong and athletic? Smart and independent? Chilled out and laid back? Let’s find out!
Answer these quick and simple dating questions, and we’ll tell you exactly what kind of girl would make your perfect match.
(Just remember: love is unpredictable! We can help you figure out what you want, but who knows, but Love might know what’s best for you.)

Questions Overview
- Nah, I want someone taller than me!
- She should be about the same height as me.
- Absolutely, she should be shorter than me.
- I don't really care.
- Me, of course!
- We're splitting the bill.
- I'd let her pay, if she wanted to.
- Sense of humor
- Smarts
- Kindness
- Flowers
- A diamond necklace
- Deluxe spa visit
- A heartfelt love letter
- Geeky
- Artsy
- Classy
- Wild
- I wanna be with her all the time!
- I want to see her every day, but not all day.
- I want to see her just a handful of times a week.
- It's cool if we see each other once or twice a week, maybe even less.
- She doesn't need to have a career if she doesn’t want one because I'll provide for us.
- She's a scientist or doctor.
- She's a model, duh.
- She's a writer or artist.
- She works with animals.
- Nah
- For sure
- I don't know, or it doesn't matter.
- I want to get married and spend the rest of our lives together!
- I want something serious, but don't know if I'm ready for marriage.
- I want something a little more casual and low-key.
- I'm not sure.
- Marathon running
- Knitting or crocheting
- Volunteering
- Video games
- Traveling
- Dancing
- She's not very hygienic.
- She never texts back very quickly.
- She’s not careful about saving her money.
- She's always got her head in the clouds.
- Having someone I can talk to about anything.
- Having fun and going on adventures together.
- Being intimate and showing affection to each other.
- Life is just easier with another person on your team, fighting beside you.
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Finding Your Dream Girl
It seems like everyone’s looking for love, and the good news is that love is out there waiting for you! There are lots of fish in the sea, as they say, and while that’s encouraging, it can also be a bit daunting—with so many fish, how do you find the right one? We’re here to help.
Think about what you want from a relationship. It’s hard to know when you’ve found someone right for you if you’re not sure what “right” even means. Think about your relationship values. Do you value your independence? Are you looking for someone who fits into your life, or do you want to challenge yourself to grow? Should that special someone share your spirituality? Your politics? Your lifestyle? Only you can answer these questions, and while you shouldn’t make a strict checklist, you should keep these things in mind while you look for love.
Put yourself out there. Love isn’t the sort of thing that just falls into your lap. Sure, that happens to a few, but even they have to put in a little effort to really forge trust and connection with their new partner. So instead of waiting around for love, go chase it! Get out of the house, talk to people who seem interesting, and try to forge connections with anyone who catches your eye. They might not all be romantic, but having that practice and experience will up your romantic game, for sure!
Be true to yourself, but be your best self. Love is a two-way street. You might have an ideal girl in your head, but that girl also has an ideal partner she’s thinking of, and you want to be able to measure up. Don’t overhaul your entire personality or become someone you’re not—that’s a recipe for disaster. Instead, think about your best qualities, and put those on display. Then, think about parts of yourself that could use some polishing and start rising to the challenge.
Keep your mind open. Like we said, love isn’t something that can be defined with a checkbox or a laundry list of traits you want your future partner to have. Often, love is unexpected, surprising, and even challenging, but it’s always worth it. Just because someone doesn’t seem like your perfect match at first, give them a chance and see what happens. They might just be the exact right person for you and you didn’t even realize it.
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