Should You Get Back With Your Ex?

Is getting back with your ex a good idea?

Co-authored by Caroline Heiderscheit

Last Updated: September 20, 2025 Fact Checked

Thinking of texting an ex? It's tough to know if it's a good idea or a recipe for disaster. This analyzer will help you sort through your feelings and figure out if giving it another shot is what's best for you. No judgment, just honest advice. Let's talk it out.

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What was the main reason for your breakup? *

What, if anything, has changed since the breakup?

How do you honestly feel about your ex right now?

Are both you and your ex genuinely willing to actively work on the issues that led to the breakup?

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A woman thinking about her past relationship. In the thought bubble is a scene of her and her ex not seeing eye to eye.

Thinking About Getting Back Together?

It's a classic dilemma: the ex. Sometimes, a breakup is a clear ending. Other times, it feels more like a pause, leaving you wondering if there's still a chapter left to write. Whether you're longing for familiar comfort or genuinely believe things could be different this time, it's a big decision that deserves careful thought.

Here are some things to consider when weighing a reunion:

Still on the fence? Share your thoughts above, and let's figure out if rekindling that old flame is a brilliant idea or better left in the past. Your happiness is what matters most!