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Therapist Rebecca Tenzer, MA, LCSW, explains what to do when you are bored and spending time alone
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We’ve all got days when our friends can’t hang and the next several hours stretch out before us without a single plan to fill them. You don’t have to spend those hours doing nothing—there are plenty of ways to entertain, educate, exercise, and enrich yourself, even without a partner in crime or a group of your best buds. In this article, we’ll give you our top ideas for things to do when you find yourself alone with some time to kill. We’ve even consulted mental health professionals and life coaches for their expert suggestions, so keep reading!

What are some fun things to do by yourself?

Therapist Rebecca Tenzer, MA, LCSW, suggests filling your alone time with diverse activities to keep things interesting from day to day. This may include creative hobbies, cooking, self-care practices, cleaning/organizing, lazy activities, exercise, or just getting out of the house in general.

1

Learn to cook a new dish.

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  1. According to intuitive counselor & happiness coach Kari Samuels, alone time is an opportunity to learn something new, so why not take this chance to brush up on your cooking skills and learn how to make a new meal?[1] Plus, here’s some science for you: Studies show that having a homemade meal results in higher satisfaction than eating out.[2] If you’ve got some time on your hands, cook something tasty like crispy, savory pork chops or a refreshing pasta salad. You’ll hone your culinary skills and boost your mood at the same time![3]
    • Learn to make pasta with a pasta machine to pick up a crowd-pleasing kitchen talent sure to wow your friends at your next dinner party.
    • Or, marinate some chicken (or your protein of choice) to cook the next night. Your future self will thank you.

    Meet the wikiHow Experts

    Rebecca Tenzer, MA, LCSW, is a clinical therapist with over 18 years of clinical and educational experiences in the field of mental health.

    Kari Samuels is an intuitive counselor & happiness coach with over 21 years of experience, specializing in intuition, energy healing, numerology, and astrology.

    Adam Dorsay, PsyD, is a licensed psychologist who specializes in assisting high-achiveing adults attain more happiness in their lives.

    Nora Oliver is a certified life coach & motivational speaker who specializes in helping others discover who they are and how to live their lives.

    William Schroeder, LPC, NCC, is a licensed professional counselor and the co-owner of Just Mind, a counseling center in Austin, Texas.

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Take up a new creative hobby.

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  1. Samuels recommends using your alone time to try a hobby unrelated to work. “If there’s something that you’ve been meaning to learn, especially creative-wise, it’s a wonderful opportunity to exercise your creativity,” Samuels says.[5] Learn to draw to translate your imagination to paper, learn to make stained glass and create gorgeous light-catchers for your home, or learn to crochet and make gorgeous projects for your friends and fam. The possibilities are endless![6]
    • Or, join a local hobby group to spend time with like-minded creatives, finding inspiration and new friends in the process.
    • Not sure what hobby is right for you? Take our Hobby Quiz to help you choose one!
    • Reader Poll: We asked 486 wikiHow readers who've discovered new hobbies, and only 17% of them considered finding a creative outlet, like drawing or singing. [Take Poll] So while these may not be the most common hobbies to pursue, remember that your ideal hobby is something that brings you joy, regardless of popularity.
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Watch a movie.

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  1. There are more movies than you’ll ever have time to watch, and we think that’s a beautiful thing. Make some popcorn, grab a blanket, and settle into the horror movie or sweeping romance that you’ve heard so much about. When it’s done, boot up the next one!
    • Or, head to the theater to see something on the big screen, which is a great way to make an afternoon out of some cinema viewing.
    • Alternatively, get a start on that TV series you’ve been interested in. Sixteen seasons and 3 direct-to-video movies aren’t going to watch themselves, you know.
5

Read a book.

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  1. Reading is like stretching your muscles to keep them limber, but in this case, that muscle is your brain. Reading improves your concentration and focus, helps you sleep, and even reduces stress.[7] So pick up that paperback on your coffee table, crack its spine, and dive right in!
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Take yourself out to eat.

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  1. Cooking at home is great, but eating out helps you broaden your culinary horizons and find new flavors for your palate. Make a reservation at that hip taco joint your friends have been raving about, or venture into a hole-in-the-wall diner to get a feel for the local scene. Explore your city one plate at a time.
7

Pick up a new instrument.

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  1. Playing an instrument keeps your mind sharp, engaging every part of your nervous system and making use of both sides of your brain.[12] Learn piano and serenade yourself with a sonata, or learn guitar and strum out your favorite pop tunes. Apps like Yousician make learning at home both feasible and fun.
    • Or, sign up for some classes to get some professional instruction, which can help you pick up the skills faster than learning on your own.
    • While you’re working hard to learn your new instrument, you’ll likely find that the hours of alone time pass super quickly—and they’ll probably be extra satisfying.
    • “If you do something that's both challenging and meaningful, you will likely experience something called flow. And flow is that beautiful, yummy place where time goes by really fast. You could be engaged in doing some type of flow-based activity for three hours and it only feels like 30 minutes has passed because we're so into it,” licensed psychologist Adam Dorsay, PsyD, explains.[13]
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Visit a museum.

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  1. If you live in an urban area, hit the local museum—art, science, history, whichever stokes your curiosity—and spend time wandering the halls and learning as you go. This is a great activity to do solo, since museums have so much to look at and explore! Many museums also have free days or discounts, so check their websites before you visit.
    • If you live somewhere without a museum, browse the online archives of world-famous museums like the Smithsonian or the MoMA to learn in the comfort of your own home.
    • Or, visit your local zoo or aquarium to encounter some wildlife you don’t see in your daily life.
9

Go to a concert.

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  1. We’re here to break the stigma of solo concert-going! What better opportunity to lose yourself in a crowd than a dark room, where all eyes are on the stage rather than yourself? Browse your city’s events calendars to see if an artist you love is stopping in town. Or, buy tickets for an act you’ve never heard of—you might find a new fav.
    • Alternatively, visit a bar or cafe on a live music night to sample a local act while sipping on a beverage.
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Take a walk.

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  1. “My advice is to put away your phone and get curious about the world around you,” recommends licensed professional counselor William Schroeder, LPC, NCC. “This could mean taking a walk and intentionally looking for things you might otherwise easily miss.”[14] For example, you might come across a relaxing spot in a local park to sit and read a book. Or, you could find a new coffee shop to try (and maybe even meet a new friend). The options are endless!
    • Consider bringing a sketchbook or notebook with you on your walk, so you can draw or jot down ideas when you come across interesting things.
11

Go on a scenic hike.

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  1. Hiking exercises your body, improves your mental health, and brings you closer to the natural world all around you.[15] Look up a nearby trail on a service like AllTrails to find a scenic route that’ll get you to a waterfall, overlook, or another fabulous nature feature that’ll make your day one to remember. Just remember to pack plenty of food and water, and let a friend know where you’re headed.
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People watch.

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  1. When you spend time alone, it’s easy to feel like your world is shrinking. People watching is a great way to remind yourself that life happens all around you, and that your world is so much bigger than the walls of your room. Set up shop in a cafe or even just on a park bench and watch the world go by.[16]
    • To spice it up and work your imagination, play the “Life” game and come up with a life story for the passers-by. Where are they coming from, and where are they headed?
14

Do nothing.

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  1. Never underestimate the power of doing absolutely nothing! We’re not made to be productive 24 hours a day, so some relaxing downtime is totally essential. “I highly recommend everybody take a mental and emotional break every single day, a few times a day,” says certified life coach & motivational speaker Nora Oliver.[17] Take a few minutes for yourself, and commit to turning off your brain. Put your phone away, cut the music, and close your eyes. Let yourself listen to the rhythm of your own body and the world around you.
    • Make your do-nothing time more interesting by setting up a chair outside, on your lawn, a porch, or in a park, and letting the sights and sounds of your neighborhood wash over you.
15

Travel alone.

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  1. “Explore somewhere new alone! There is no greater adventure in life that brings you closer to who you really are than traveling alone,” says dating coach Cristina Morara.[18] Traveling alone is one of the best ways to immerse yourself in a new culture and city, and what’s more, it’s often cheaper and easier to travel light when it’s just yourself. Just be sure to check in with friends and family, and let your loved ones know where you are.
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17

Have a spring cleaning day.

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  1. No matter the season, it’s a good idea to do a “spring cleaning” (a deeper, more in-depth clean than your usual tidying up) every once in a while. This is a productive way to fill some alone time, and it can also have some seriously positive effects. In fact, research shows that decluttering your home boosts your mood, sharpens focus and productivity, and even improves your physical health![19]
    • Try tackling your living space one room or area at a time. For example, one day you can try clearing out your closet and donating old clothes you don’t wear anymore. The next time, you could try to organize your home workspace or declutter your living room.
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Go for a drive.

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  1. They don’t call it a “joy ride” for no reason. We don’t recommend you careen your car through the streets, but a laid-back drive through the city or the country makes for some meditative and refreshing time alone. Whether it’s a summery afternoon drive or a contemplative night ride, put on some tunes to match the vibe.
    • If you don’t have access to a car, hop on public transit and take it to a new place. Put on those headphones, gaze out the window, and live your movie-moment fantasy.
21

Get some exercise.

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  1. It’s hardly a secret that exercising regularly decreases your risk of disease, strengthens your body, helps you live longer, and helps manage chronic mental health conditions.[22] Tenzer advises getting up and moving—it can be as simple as going for a 5-minute run or even a nice long walk.[23]
    • Do some yoga at home for a mindful and low-impact exercise that improves your flexibility and core strength.
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Hit up an amusement park.

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  1. Get some thrills on a high-speed roller coaster, or score a brand new plushie for yourself by playing a carnival game. Wandering around an amusement park or a carnival at your own pace lets you savor the atmosphere and curate your own experience, without being tied down to a group that wants to do different things.
    • If it’s winter, visit an ice rink and enjoy a cup of hot chocolate, or enjoy the ambience of a ski village to soak up some seasonal celebrations.
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Go shopping.

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  1. We can’t deny that a little shopping spree hits the spot every now and then. Head up to the mall and let your wallet take you wherever it will. Try some new jewelry, or visit a toy store to indulge your inner child. Just be sure to stick to a budget to avoid an empty purse at the end.
    • If you’re a bit more conservative with your spending, spend your spree at a thrift store or secondhand store to find some real treasures at a steep discount.
    • Or, take part in the time-honored tradition of window shopping. Sometimes sizing up a display is just as satisfying as dropping money on new goodies.
27

Do a random act of kindness.

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  1. Make the world a better place by doing something selfless. Visit an assisted living home and spend time with the older folks in your community, or donate some old books to your local library. Your act of kindness can be as simple as complimenting someone’s outfit, or writing a sweet note on a slip of paper and leaving it at a coffee shop for someone to find.[25]
    • Make your kindness a bit less random by asking a friend, neighbor, or family member if they need help today.
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Practice a new language.

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30

Meditate.

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  1. Tenzer recommends meditation as a go-to alone-time activity.[29] It helps you de-stress, reduce negative emotions, lower your blood pressure, improve your sleep, and boost your creativity, among other benefits.[30] Find somewhere quiet to sit and lie down, put on some relaxed music, and slow your breathing. Then, let your mind take you wherever it will.
    • Or, have a more focused meditation session by centering your thoughts on intentions for self-improvement, like being kinder to yourself or letting go of frustration.
31

Write a book or a poem.

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  1. For some, reading isn’t enough; they have to stretch their creativity by creating their own characters and worlds. If that’s you, try your hand at writing a book. Your first draft doesn’t have to be pretty—it just has to exist! Or, to really stretch your emotional and creative muscles, write some poetry and express your inner thoughts and feelings. The only rule in poetry is being genuine!
    • You might also write non-fiction and chronicle an interesting time in your life, or the life of someone close to you.
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Explore your spirituality.

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  1. Your spirituality is something that’s always growing and shifting based on your own perspective and life experience.[31] If it’s been a while since you’ve explored your spiritual side, set aside some time to ask yourself what you believe and why. You might surprise yourself with how much your own outlook has changed—or how much it’s stayed the same.
    • If you’re religious, spend some time praying to connect with and explore your faith.
    • If you’re not spiritual, contemplate your place in the world and in nature. You don’t need to be spiritual to appreciate the interconnectedness of life.
36

Play a video game.

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  1. They’re not all mindless fun or mature violence, you know. Playing video games has been linked to increased spatial awareness, more finely tuned attention, better problem-solving skills, and enhanced creativity.[33] So grab a controller and indulge in that new release, guilt-free.
    • Or, download some puzzle games to your phone like Sudoku, Solitaire, or Crosswords for a less involved experience that still engages your brain.
37

Listen to some tunes.

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  1. Did you know that listening to music is sometimes used as a form of therapy to aid with mental, emotional, and cognitive well-being?[34] Take some time to listen to your favorite album from front to back. Or, dive into Spotify or Apple Music’s expansive libraries to find new gems. Like reading a book or watching a movie, listening to music is a fabulous and creative use of your time.
    • To really get the most out of your experience, spend time thinking about the lyrics or identifying portions of a song you really enjoy. You might find you start to appreciate them even more.
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Start a journal or diary.

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  1. Writing about your experiences—even (and especially) the negative ones—helps you process them and put them into perspective. In some cases, it can even improve your physical and mental health.[35] Keep a journal and write down anything significant that happens each day, then revisit it months or years later to reminisce on the person you were.
    • If you already keep a journal, use this opportunity to crack it open and start reading! Let those memories come flooding back.
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Play with your pet.

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  1. You know who’s always down to hang and will never pass up an opportunity for face-to-face time? Your pet! Throw a ball for your dog or take them on a walk; snuggle up to your cat or tease them with a feather toy; let your snake drape across your shoulders. Interacting with your pets keeps them busy, but also reduces your own stress, lowers blood pressure, and promotes physical activity.[37]
    • Or, volunteer to pet sit for a friend, family member, or neighbor to get some quality time with a friendly animal without the lifelong commitment.
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Make a gratitude list.

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  1. According to Tenzer, “Being alone can be difficult, but it can also be a really healing time,” and she recommends “showing gratitude…to be thankful for the opportunity to be able to do so.”[38] During your alone time, write a gratitude list including the things you’re super thankful for in your life. It’s a meaningful and entertaining activity to do, and practicing gratitude has also been shown to reduce anxiety, depression, and stress.[39]
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Create a list of solo activities you enjoy having on hand.

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  1. “Create a list of the things that you enjoy doing and rate them on a scale of 1 to 10, then incorporate the things that make you feel good (rated an 8-10 on your scale) into your alone time,” recommends Tenzer.[40] When you’re done, you’ll basically have a menu of fun items to choose from any time you’re feeling bored while alone!

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Finding something that you enjoy doing alone that brings you happiness can make a world of difference between a lonely night at home or a relaxing time rejuvenating your inner self! Try some diverse activities to see what you like most; this could be a hobby, self-care, lazy activities, reaching out to a friend, or getting out of the house. Create a list of the things that you enjoy doing and rate them on a scale of 1 to 10. Then, incorporate the things that make you feel good (rated an 8-10 on your scale) into your alone time. Think critically while making your list. Sometimes, the things we THINK we like are truly not what makes us feel good. Sitting on the couch for five hours, binge-watching Netflix with wine in hand, may not actually read high on your scale of feel-good activities, or maybe it does! Try new things and see if you can add to your toolbox of feel-good activities. Some ideas off the top of my head are mindfulness, meditation, getting a workout in, preparing healthy food, socializing remotely with loved ones, cleaning or organizing your space. Try to truly enjoy the time you have.
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There are loads of fun and meaningful things you can do by yourself at home or outside the house, whether it's a special occasion (like your birthday) or just a regular day:
  • Spend an afternoon in the library to discover cool new books, take a class, or attend a reading
  • Go to the gym or take a fitness class
  • Volunteer for a cause you find meaningful
  • See a movie at the theater
  • Go thrifting or browse an antique shop
  • Explore an art, history, or science museum
  • Go strolling in the park or hike in the woods
  • Listen to an audiobook or podcast
  • Do a puzzle
  • Garden

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