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People all over TikTok are using the Compass Clue method to determine if someone they know has a crush on them. But does it actually work? Don't worry, we're on the case! Below, we'll explain the meaning of the Compass Clue dating trend, how it looks in real life, whether it works, and other ways to tell if someone likes you, with insights from trend expert Shayan Faraz.

What is the Compass Clue in dating?

Trend expert Shayan Faraz says the Compass Clue method is a dating trend on social media that suggests you can gauge if someone is attracted to you based on whether their body is often pointed toward you, just like how a compass always points north.

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Compass Clue Meaning in Dating

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  1. Faraz describes it as a dating trend that assesses whether someone is attracted to you based on their body language. According to this method, if someone finds you attractive, their body will always point toward you, whether they're standing or sitting down.[1]
    • This trend is called the Compass Clue method because of the idea that a person who's attracted to you will always "point," or face their body toward you, similar to how the arrow on a compass always points north, explains Faraz.[2]
    • According to this TikTok by @stephenbrenland, people can also use the Compass Clue method while texting. For example, if you notice they're sending you the same emojis you're sending them, that's a form of mirroring and a potential sign of attraction.

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    Shayan Faraz is a trend expert who analyzes and creates content about internet culture. He has over 35,000 followers on his TikTok page, @chummertok.

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What does the Compass Clue method look like?

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  1. Open body language means that they’re facing you and letting you see the front of their body without crossing their arms. Instead, they rest their hands in their lap or at their sides. If you join them while they're sitting down, they'll either uncross their legs or point their crossed-over foot toward you. According to Faraz, they might also make eye contact, stay in close proximity to you, and mirror your stance or your gestures.[3] For example, if you touch your chin with your hand, they'll do the same.
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Does the Compass Clue method work?

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  1. Prolonged eye contact, pointing the front of your body toward someone, and staying physically close to them are all well-known signs of physical attraction.[4] However, someone who does any of these things toward you might not necessarily be attracted to you. They might face you because you're talking, performing an attention-grabbing action, or wearing an eye-catching outfit. Look for other, more definite signs of attraction, like if they "stalk" you on social media or text you late at night.
    • Keep in mind that the Compass Clue method can serve different purposes. You can use the method to gauge whether someone has a crush on you, but you can also use it to try to "communicate" that you have a crush on someone else!
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Other Ways to Tell If Someone Likes You

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  1. According to this TikTok by @kydalocstar, if someone is really into you, they'll engage in a bit of light social media "stalking." You'll notice them following you on Instagram, TikTok, and wherever else you post about your life online. They might like posts you uploaded months or even years ago. You might also notice them viewing all your Stories.
    • "Stalking" in this context is viewing someone's social media profile and liking their posts. This is generally harmless behavior, but if you don't want a specific person doing this to you, block them or change your account status to "private" (or take both actions).
    • Real-life stalking, where someone monitors your location at all times and follows you around, is toxic and unhealthy, and should never be taken as a positive sign of attraction.
  2. In this TikTok by @keliantee, the creator explains that when someone really likes you, they'll tell their friends about you. Then their friends will start talking to you, and they might even follow you on social media. They may be trying to see if you're a good fit for their friend, or they might be preparing for you to become part of their group. Whatever the reason, it's usually a good sign when your crush's friends show interest in you!
  3. If they call or text you late at night, @favsjohh says in this TikTok, that's a clear sign you're on their mind. They might be making a booty call, or they might just want someone to talk to. The fact that they chose you is a compliment to your impact on them and their attraction to you.
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  4. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/cutting-edge-leadership/202010/body-language-cues-that-increase-physical-attraction

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This article was co-authored by Shayan Faraz and by wikiHow staff writer, Elaine Heredia, BA. Shayan Faraz, also known online as Chum, is a content creator based in Ann Arbor, Michigan. Shayan has quickly emerged as an expert voice in the creator economy. Through his viral storytelling and analysis of internet culture, he has amassed over 35,000 followers, 70 million organic views, and over 7 million likes on his TikTok page @chummertok. His videos break down the business of creators and cultural trends, and he has been recognized by famous creators and brands, including Kai Cenat, Vat19, Phillip DeFranco, and more. Shayan is currently pursuing a bachelor’s degree in Business Administration from the University of Michigan.
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