Are You a High-Value Man?

Take this quiz to see if you're someone other people want!

A high-value man is someone other people want on their team. He's hard-working, handsome, kind-hearted, and intelligent. Think you're the complete package?

Answer a few questions, and we'll tell you if you're a hot commodity!

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Questions Overview

1. At a restaurant, your waiter gets your friend's order wrong. What do you do?
  1. Tell them to take it back and ask for a refund. That's unacceptable.
  2. Ask them for the right order. It's no biggie, but they should fix it.
  3. I leave it up to my friend. It's their problem, so it's up to them.
2. What do you think is most important in a guy?
  1. Looks
  2. Personality
  3. Intelligence
3. When was the last time you read a book?
  1. In the past week.
  2. In the past month.
  3. In the past year.
  4. I don't remember!
4. At a party, there's only one slice of cake left. What do you do?
  1. Leave it for someone else. I'm not super interested.
  2. Eat it! First come, first served.
  3. Save it for the host. It's their party, and they earned it.
5. How do you feel about holding doors for others?
  1. I do it all the time! It's a nice gesture that's easy to do.
  2. I do it for certain people, like women or the elderly.
  3. I don't do it. People can open their own doors. It's weird to treat them like babies.
6. Who should pay for dinner on a date?
  1. I will! It's the least I could do for a nice night.
  2. We should split the bill. Fair's fair.
  3. They should. I'm doing them a favor just by being here.
  4. It depends on how well the date goes, tbh.
7. You overhear someone scolding their friend, and they sound pretty harsh. What do you do?
  1. Nothing. It's none of my business!
  2. I sneak the friend a smile to let them know it's not all bad.
  3. I politely tell the person to ease up. That's not a helpful way to speak to others.
8. What's your 5-year plan?
  1. Honestly? I don't really have one. I'm just vibing.
  2. Work hard and achieve my dreams! Or at least, get closer to them.
  3. I'm focused on enjoying myself and living my best life.
9. You come in second place in a big competition. How do you feel?
  1. Proud of myself for coming this far. It took a lot of hard work!
  2. Disappointed that I didn't come in first. I should have worked harder.
  3. Jealous of the winner. They don't deserve it as much as me.
10. How much effort would you say you put into your looks?
  1. Not much. I'm pretty naturally attractive.
  2. I try to look nice, but I'm not about to fuss too much.
  3. I put a lot of effort into my looks. Presentation is important!
  4. Meh. I'm not really concerned with looks that way.

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Becoming a High Value Man

A “high-value man” is someone who’s a hot commodity. They don’t last long on the dating scene because they’re a perfect partner who gets scooped up quickly, so you gotta act fast if you want to get with them. A high-value man is someone everyone wants, and everyone wants to be. How do you become one? We talked to pro dating coaches and matchmakers to find out:

Matchmaker April Davis tells us that “In relationships, there's always some sort of transaction. In a way, you're trading something for something. You want to make sure that you're adding value to this person's life and you're not just looking to get something, because it's not going to work out well.”[1]

Dating coach John Keegan says to ask yourself: “What do you bring into her life? Is it that you're light-hearted? You're bringing good sex. You're bringing good company, good romance, making her feel like he has a rock fireside, what do you bring into any kind of relationship instead of what can I get from her?”[2]

Dating coach Hardy Jean says, “Women love men who can confidently talk about their achievements without coming off as being cocky. I think a big part of that is really just having a proper reference point for your competence, rather than just talking about how great you are, talking about the impact that the experience had on you.”[3]

Dating and relationship coach Mark Rosenfeld says to “Be courageous. Take action with women. And by taking action, I mean, if you like a woman, ask her out. If you're on the date, go for the kiss. You know, if you want to sleep with her, invite her home. As a man, you women are looking for courage, and they're looking for directness.”[4]

Celebrity matchmaker and dating coach Alessandra Conti says, “A great way to do attraction is to start from the outside and then go in because when you look good, you feel good. And people generally, men and women, are both visual creatures.”[5]

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References

  1. ↑ April Davis. Matchmaker. Expert Interview
  2. ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview
  3. ↑ Hardy Jean. Dating Coach. Expert Interview
  4. ↑ Mark Rosenfeld. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview
  5. ↑ Alessandra Conti. Celebrity Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview

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    Jan 13

    "It made me feel good, and it was something I really needed to hear about myself recently, to be honest."
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