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Flirting with a caring, thoughtful Pisces man can be the first step to a fairytale-level romance. But how do you get this Neptune-ruled dreamer’s attention? We’ve got you covered! In this article, we’ve compiled all the tips you need to show your Pisces guy you’re potential soulmate material. Read on for the best flirting strategies to help you reel in the fish of the zodiac, complete with expert insights from professional astrologers.
How to Attract a Pisces Man
Professional astrologer Angel Eyedealism recommends showing a Pisces guy that you’re a compassionate, sensitive person who can relate to him. Give him kind compliments, listen to his wildest dreams, and talk about your emotions together to show him you care. Engage his creative and imaginative side by bonding over art.
Pisces men can be a bit shy, but they’re drawn to outgoing people. Ruled by Neptune, the planet of illusion, Pisces guys may get lost in their daydreams and fantasies when they’ve got a crush, to the point that they forget to put themselves out there.[1]XResearch source Don’t be afraid to shoot your Pisces guy a text or just walk over and talk to him. This gentle water sign will respect your confidence. Plus, if he’s feeling the same vibes as you, he’ll be relieved he doesn’t have to be the first one to break the ice!
Ask him for his thoughts on a popular sci-fi or fantasy show. Pisces men love anything that’ll get their imagination going.
Keep your flirting verbal, rather than physical. According to Eyedealism, Pisces guys aren’t the biggest fans of a super direct or garish approach (like excessive PDA, for example).[2]XExpert SourceAngel Eyedealism Professional AstrologerExpert Interview
For a more subtle approach, make eye contact with him from across the room and flash a warm smile. Pisces are really intuitive, so he’ll pick up on the flirty vibe! When he smiles back, head over to him and start a convo.
Angel Eyedealism is an astrologist with nearly 3 decades of experience. She’s been featured in Vogue, Cosmopolitan, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, and more.
Stina Garbis is a psychic astrologer with over 30 years of experience, as well as a well-known spiritual social media influencer and author.
Tali & Ophira Edut are astrologers and best-selling authors. Also known as the AstroTwins, they are the resident astrologers at ELLE magazine and founders of the website Astrostyle.
Boost a Pisces man’s self-esteem, and you’ll start winning him over. Compliment his incredible impressionist painting skills, his insightful philosophical commentary, or his unique sense of style. Pisces are some of the most interesting, creative, and deep people on the planet, but they can be insecure and sensitive to criticism.[3]XResearch source By giving him a compliment, you’ll show your Pisces guy that you really “get” him, and that you like him just the way he is!
Show up at an important event with a “Congrats” card and tell him he did amazingly.
Drop a compliment about his photography skills on his latest social media post.
Send him a random “You’re handsome” message over text.
Pisces are ruled by Neptune, the planet of dreams and imagination. “They have a rich fantasy life,” explains psychic astrologer Stina Garbis.[4]XExpert SourceStina Garbis Psychic AstrologerExpert Interview With this in mind, it’s no surprise that Pisces guys are huge dreamers when it comes to their personal and professional goals! They love having late-night conversations about their aspirations and deep talks about their greater purpose in life.[5]XResearch source No matter how far-fetched your Pisces guy’s goals might seem, show him that you take his dreams seriously to win him over.
The next time you see him, open with a question like, “What’s something you’ve always wanted to do?” or “Tell me your craziest dream.”
Give him plenty of encouragement when he does open up by saying things like, “You should totally get your PhD! You’d be the cool professor everyone loves.”
For a fun date night activity, you could even create vision boards together.
Share your own aspirations with him, too. He’ll love that you have your own set of incredible future plans!
Annabel Gat, Astrologer
Pisces is the most romantic sign of the zodiac. Ruled by Neptune, planet of fantasy, Pisces men long to be whisked away by a passionate affair. Though shy at first, shower your Pisces with affection and he'll happily follow you into uncharted emotional waters. Speak to his poetic soul in language laced with metaphor. Share your dreams, artwork, volunteering efforts - anything imaginative or compassionate. Avoid negativity or conflict. The key is to make your Pisces man feel safe enough to surface from his inner world and join you in romantic reverie.
Pisces are deeply caring people, and they like feeling useful. If you need help with anything—from a clogged sink to a conflict with a coworker—don’t hesitate to ask for advice or support from your Pisces crush. He’ll appreciate your ability to be vulnerable and ask for help. As a bonus, you’ll bump up his self-esteem since he’ll get to flaunt his compassionate side!
Ask your Pisces guy to put his creative skills to use on your latest DIY project, or draw on his knack for emotional support by asking him to help you solve an interpersonal problem.
If he rushes in to help, this is a big sign that he feels the same way about you. According to Garbis, when a Pisces guy likes you, he’ll go out of his way to show up for you, do favors for you, and ask if you’re okay.[6]XExpert SourceStina Garbis Psychic AstrologerExpert Interview
Let him know you’d do the same for him. Pisces are often the “givers” in relationships, and they aren’t always used to their partner backing them up. Your thoughtfulness will go a long way!
As a water sign, Pisces is known for being deeply creative. “For example, music is a huge thing with Pisces—music and art and colors,” so a Pisces man would want “a partner who is colorful, musical, or artistic in some way,” explains Eyedealism.[7]XExpert SourceAngel Eyedealism Professional AstrologerExpert Interview Ask your Pisces crush what he thinks about a famous musician or work of art, or be bold and ask him to check out local art galleries and museums with you.
Go on a street art tour of your city, visit a botanical garden, check out a public art installation, or go to a cool concert or play.
For a more hands-on approach, take a photography, ceramics, or painting class together.
Set up a shared playlist on Spotify or Apple Music, so you can get to know each other’s taste in music.
Your Pisces guy will love the chance to indulge his inner kid. Plan a date to an amusement park, go to an interactive science museum, or ask if he wants to play a pickup game of basketball. Neptune’s influence helps Pisces guys let loose and be a little silly. When you show him you don’t take yourself too seriously, he’ll appreciate that you’re on the same page. He’ll also appreciate how unique your date ideas are. “Putting imagination or creativity into the wooing process is what will engage [Pisces men],” says Eyedealism.[8]XExpert SourceAngel Eyedealism Professional AstrologerExpert Interview
Challenge each other to speak in a different accent for the entire date.
Go to the beach and see who can build the most elaborate sand castle.
Grab ice cream and go sit on the swings at a local park.
We have to admit, Pisces aren’t the best planners in the world. The fish of the zodiac is a mutable sign, so they prefer to go with the flow rather than hammering out all the logistics.[9]XResearch source “They want someone who has flexibility. If you’re very rigid with a Pisces, they’re going to [try to] escape,” warns Eyedealism.[10]XExpert SourceAngel Eyedealism Professional AstrologerExpert Interview If your guy forgets a date or shows up a few minutes late, that doesn’t mean he’s not into you! When you make plans, send him a reminder a few hours before to make sure he shows up.
Opt for low-stakes activities like going to the farmers’ market or picnicking in the park rather than dates where you’ll need to be right on time.
Plan to meet up with your Pisces before heading out on a date. That way, you’ll be able to help them get out the door.
Add in 15 minutes of buffer time when you’re making plans with a Pisces.
Pisces guys look for partners who can match their level of compassion. When you’re out on the town together, look for chances to help out other people. Hold open the door for a stranger, or help someone carry groceries to their car. When you’re in private, let your Pisces man know that you’re there for him, too—this water sign will appreciate your empathy and emotional intelligence![11]XResearch source
Send your Pisces guy a supportive text like, “I’m your #1 fan. You’re going to crush it today!”
If he shares something personal with you, say, “It means so much that you can talk to me. I’m always here for you.”
Whenever he starts to talk about his day or his life, encourage him to go on by saying things like, “Woah. Tell me more about that,” or “What was that like?!”
Sensitive Pisces men like reassurance in relationships. If you get the sense that your Pisces man likes you back, feel free to open up about how much you care about him. “It’s all about the little things, a constant stream of little things to reassure them and make them feel they’re seen and appreciated,” explain astrologers Tali & Ophira Edut. “You always have to let them know, ‘I’m thinking about you. I’m thinking about you.’”[13]XExpert SourceTali & Ophira Edut AstrologersExpert Interview
If this is the first time you’re opening up about your feelings to him, here are a few examples of what to say:
“I really like spending time with you, and I think we could be great together. I don’t want to put any pressure on you, but I wanted you to know how I feel.”
“You might’ve figured out that I’ve got a huge crush on you… Is there any chance you feel the same way?”
“I’ve been having the best time getting to know you. Have you ever thought about us getting together?”
Pisces is one of the most romantic signs of the zodiac. When a Pisces is into someone, it’s “A rom-com all the way,” say the Eduts.[14]XExpert SourceTali & Ophira Edut AstrologersExpert Interview “They love flowers, they love candlelight, they love just the trappings of romance,” so a clinical or cold approach would be “a total turn-off for a Pisces,” Eyedealism adds.[15]XExpert SourceAngel Eyedealism Professional AstrologerExpert Interview So, don’t be afraid to go all-out on the romantic gestures to win over your Pisces guy! Here are some ideas:[16]XResearch source
Send your Pisces a playlist full of love songs.
Order his favorite snack to get delivered to his doorstep.
Write him an old-fashioned love letter.
String up fairy lights and build a pillow fort.
Write him a love song or love poem.
Get him a little gift. If you’re not sure what he likes, go for something artsy and playful, like an adult coloring book or a disposable film camera.
Pisces guys are emotional, and sometimes they need time to decompress. Their deeply empathetic nature means they get influenced by the energy of the people around them. If your Pisces guy seems exhausted after a long day or seems like he’s pulling away, give him time. Pisces are fiercely loyal and caring, so he’ll come back around.
Talk to each other about expectations for how often you’ll communicate. Your Pisces guy might love texting and calling every day, or he might not!
Regularly ask your Pisces, “How can I support you today?” Pisces are so caring that sometimes they forget to think about what they need.
Support your Pisces guy when he wants to spend time with his friends. Pisces men are devoted partners, but it’s important for them to keep up their own social circles.
Reader Poll: We asked 597 wikiHow readers what they, as a Pisces, value most in a relationship, and 61% of them said loyalty.[Take Poll] So, be willing to trust him and let him trust you in return.
Your Pisces man wants to get to know the real you. You don’t have to worry about changing your appearance or your personality to win a Pisces man over. What you’re wearing or whether you’re having a great hair day isn’t as important as what’s in your heart. He’s interested in all your deepest thoughts and questions about life.
Had my first date with a Pisces guy a few days ago and I think we really hit it off but I've never dated a Pisces before and would love any tips/advice/insight about what it's like. Can you tell me what to expect or watch out for?
In general, Pisces men tend to be very soft, and they're very dreamy and romantic. One thing you should be careful about, though: just because they're romantic and soft, it doesn't mean that they actually want to enter a committed, long-term relationship. A lot of times, as much as a Pisces man loves the idea of love, they can spend time escaping, feeling like "I'm good on my own, I don't need to make a relationship into a material reality". So, my advice would be that Pisces men can be really soft and charming and sweet, but you should wait to jump in headfirst until you see concrete signs of commitment from them.
I was married to Pisces for over 10 years until his passing (I'm a Capricorn). He was a big, buff biker, but all teddy bear once he let the tough exterior drop. Yes, very romantic! He would rather walk through a side lot of field and pick flowers for me than buy them! He enjoyed when I would praise him for his nature, or tell him exactly what I loved about him. But be sincere! Flattering him without honesty will pay him away; he will distrust you more. Do begin early by telling him one or two private things nobody else knows about you. If it's serious, he will feel like you're confidante and will open up quicker. But always maintain respect and loyalty, with honesty- sometimes the hard truth he'll appreciate more than if you sugarcoat it, as long as you use the correct soft tone of voice, and assure him that the truth is to help him, not harm him. My guy LOVED any little thing that showed I was thinking about him- a heart drawn on his napkin in his lunch bag, a few candies on his pillow if I went to bed early, smiley faces drawn on pancakes with chocolate chips, too! Home cooking and a real sense of maintaining our home really got kudos from him! If you are intimate, be prepared to have your head completely blown off! But don't expect him to jump right in the sack with you. My guy had to be 100% that I was completely into him and totally loyal. Oh, yeah! This guy! He was my soulmate, my perfect match. We laughed all the time, danced to our music ('80's) in the grocery store aisles, sang at the top of our lungs when driving around. Our connection and commitment was palpable, and we were always being complimented on being such a far out couple! My Pisces man was everything I dreamed of since I was a little girl- my Knight in shining armour who protected me and kept me safe, who played on his knees before bedtime, and rode a Harley and was completely covered in tattoos!!! He WAS real. And although I was only gifted him from God for ten years, we lived reach day to the absolute maximum, always with each other, holding hands or my arm in his. He lived to kiss me, and just all his devotion made me want to do anything in the world just to see his smile and hear his laughter. I can't think of a negative, except maybe don't be a nagger or try to win an argument based on emotional manipulation. My husband would walk out of the house. I knew he would come back, and would be loyal, but I would never know for how long he would be gone. And with him being in an MC, I always got a bit concerned. But Pisces are very trustworthy and honourable. He never needed a reason to keep a secret, and I knew everything about him. But he did have just one, and kept it for almost 3 1/2 years until after our 2nd anniversary ----- he had won a personal non-taxable, non-wage settlement with 9 zeros behind it and didn't know what to do with it! We'd been living within our means, and he trusted me to find a good investment broker. We had an additional monthly draw from a percentage of the interest earned, and that was it. It allowed us to buy a more reliable vehicle, and go to the movies on the weekend. But grandkids started popping out, and Christmases were really a lot of fun! You will never go wrong with a Pisces man, as long as you maintain your integrity and are always honest with him, show him how much you appreciate him, and remember how much he like to feel your hand touching him or lips kissing him. I miss my husband so terribly. I truly lost a huge piece of my heart and soul.
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Angel Eyedealism is an Astrologer and Performance Artist based in the Lower East Side of Manhattan. With nearly three decades of astrology experience, Angel specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography. Eyedealism has been featured in numerous media outlets such as Vogue, Cosmopolitan, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, Refinery29, NBC, MTV, Showtime, and Bravo. Angel aims to help others through a straightforward, kind, and humorous astrological lens, utilizing her entertainment and singing skills for performance art astrology readings.
Angel Eyedealism is an Astrologer and Performance Artist based in the Lower East Side of Manhattan. With nearly three decades of astrology experience, Angel specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography. Eyedealism has been featured in numerous media outlets such as Vogue, Cosmopolitan, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, Refinery29, NBC, MTV, Showtime, and Bravo. Angel aims to help others through a straightforward, kind, and humorous astrological lens, utilizing her entertainment and singing skills for performance art astrology readings.
Show them that you're a compassionate and sensitive person, and that you try to relate to them. Pisces are all about vibes, instincts, and feelings, so you definitely don't want to give a Pisces any bad, off-putting vibes.
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This article was co-authored by Angel Eyedealism and by wikiHow staff writer, Annabelle Reyes. Angel Eyedealism is an Astrologer and Performance Artist based in the Lower East Side of Manhattan. With nearly three decades of astrology experience, Angel specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography. Eyedealism has been featured in numerous media outlets such as Vogue, Cosmopolitan, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, Refinery29, NBC, MTV, Showtime, and Bravo. Angel aims to help others through a straightforward, kind, and humorous astrological lens, utilizing her entertainment and singing skills for performance art astrology readings. This article has been viewed 100,990 times.
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