Aquarius men: How do I know how he feels about me?
I've been dating an Aquarius Man for a few months now. We have not had sex although he has kissed me. He plans trips for us for photography passions that we both have. Our last trip he drove 5 hours each way and then he suggests our next trip and he pays for everything. He can open up about his ex-wife and other personal things about himself. I want to know how he feels about me yet I don't want to push. He says that he's trying to see if I will grow on him because I am the total opposite of what he normally goes for in a woman. He usually goes for blonde hair blue eyes I've got black hair dark eyes yet we seem to have a connection from the first time we spoke. How do I know how he feels about me? Aside from being an Aquarius man he is also an engineer which makes his aloofness and emotional attachments very difficult. But I have been patient we talk almost every day I just don't want to feel like I'm wasting my time if it's not going to go anywhere.
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Aquarius is a sign that rules over platonic love. If an Aquarius is slow in getting to thoroughly know you, think of it as a friends-to-lovers type of energy. Aquarius men are private and selective, but they are initiators. If they initiate consistently (even through spur-of-the-moment communication or through classic & direct invitation styles), that's a good sign that they're into you. Aquarius is a sign that loves to get stimulated by the mind, so they'll also look for a shared intellectual connection. If they're asking for your opinion or perspective on matters, that's also a good indication that they're interested in you.
These signs are future-forward thinkers, so if they talk about future plans that include you and they follow through, it's a great sign. Aquarius is a freedom-seeking sign, but they also feel the pull to be protective of what they love. So if he checks to make sure you're home safe or makes sure you aren't hungry, for example, these are also good signs of interest.
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These signs are future-forward thinkers, so if they talk about future plans that include you and they follow through, it's a great sign. Aquarius is a freedom-seeking sign, but they also feel the pull to be protective of what they love. So if he checks to make sure you're home safe or makes sure you aren't hungry, for example, these are also good signs of interest.
It honestly sounds like he's into you but just taking things slow. Besides, he's an engineer and I know they're super busy.
Aquarius or not, pleeeease don't be afraid to ask your partner questions like this. Relationships are built on trust, communication, and open-mindedness. If you're getting anxious over the state of your relationship, it's his job to be honest with you and share his point of view. And vice versa. Although zodiac signs may help us understand why a person acts the way they do, it isn't the only thing you should rely on.
I'm rooting for u two :) Communication is KEY!
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Aquarius or not, pleeeease don't be afraid to ask your partner questions like this. Relationships are built on trust, communication, and open-mindedness. If you're getting anxious over the state of your relationship, it's his job to be honest with you and share his point of view. And vice versa. Although zodiac signs may help us understand why a person acts the way they do, it isn't the only thing you should rely on.
I'm rooting for u two :) Communication is KEY!
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