How do you win a Scorpio man's heart?
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If you want to win a Scorpio man's heart, show him you're the real deal and that you're worthy of his trust. Scorpios are slow to open up to people, but once they do, they're very loyal. Open up to him and show him you have depth and substance, and show interest in what he has to say as well. Scorpio men want a partner who is authentic, deep, passionate, and sensitive, like they are.
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Don't give it all up to a Scorpio right away. Leave a veil of mystery and then they will be intrigued and obsessed over you. If you open yourself up too soon, they're going to lose interest, especially if they're not sensing your sexual interest.
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Meaning no disrespect, but Angel's take sounds like advice from a non-Scorpio woman to another typical woman. As a lifelong, bread-in-the-bone Scorpio there are things you should know:
_ First: Do you understand the difference between your garden variety ocean waves and a tsunami? No? Watch some video's about it. Now. Some will think they can play their usual romantic games and "surf" the emotions of a Scorpio, but passionate Scorpio's is likely to arrive as a tsunami. There might be playful waves later. However, until you've watched THE WHOLE OCEAN rise up and come after you, for miles of coastline in both directions ... well, at that point you'll better understand and appreciate your Scorpio.
_ Buyer beware: Scorpio's are not toys for amateurs. They are the most intensely loving, passionate, loyal, sensual, ... and potentially sarcastic, evil, vindictive natural disaster ever to be found in the zodiac. They require dedicated care and feeding to remain happy! Once you earn their loyalty your relationship is gold, but don't dare to toy with them (yes, I'm looking at YOU Aries) or you might lose something important (see Matthew 8:12, 13:42). Seriously, if you can't commit to an honest, loyal, sensual, passionate romp-of-an-existence with your loyal Scorpio then save yourself now and don't even start. You really don't want an irritated Scorpio lurking for years and waiting to get even.
SO, are you brave? Willing to go for the brass ring? Well then, good on you mate!
1) "Make him chase you a little". Not usually a good idea. Consider that 95% of grown, confident men DON'T find a chase appealing. Scorpio's even less so. Why? Scorpios tend to read minds on a subconscious level all of the time, and sometimes consciously. Attempting to lead one on or intentionally spoon-feed them a story about Who You Are isn't likely to end well. Translation: they will increasingly believe less of what you say and do, and either use you for entertainment or move on.
2) "Flirt with him" - yep, that should work.
3) "Be mysterious" - That's up there with "Make him case you a little" and not advised.
4) "Have deep talks about interesting subjects" - Oh yes, do that!
5) "Give him compliments" - yes!
6) "Show him that you’re loyal and consistent" - Very important
7) "Be honest to build his trust" - very important
8) "Accept him without judgment" - Love or hate them, they will be what they are. Do NOT go in thinking you're going to improve them or round off the rough edges. You have been warned.
9) "Give him space" - Yes, Scorpio's need time to process all of the information they absorbed during the day, so when they get home they're going to need some quiet time for processing.
10) "Let him contact you first" - As with #1 and #3, this is for ladies looking for players. Seriously, knowing everything I just shared with you, doesn't this sound just a little dangerous? If you want him, show him. It's that simple.
11) "Try not to focus on your appearance too much" - Unless your evening will be at a formal function ***take this to heart***. This is strong advice for almost any relationship with a man.
12) "Rein in your jealousy" - What she describes is usually accurate. Most Scorpio's are "White Hat"/ wannabe hero's, though some are just evil. Rarely will you find one ambiguous. Don't betray one though. That can go very badly.
13) "Be open to trying new things in the bedroom" - Definitely, and make sure YOU initiate! While they're usually in need of a nice romp, Fun And Frolic are the key! Chase them around the kitchen and pounce! Wake up early and go for a ride! Jump up on the counter, use the arm of a sturdy sofa, a rocking chair, the stairs, under the stars on a cool night on a blanket somewhere private, at interesting destinations with large comfy beds / fire place / masseuse / Jacuzzi, ... show him love and passion and he'll be your very own white knight.
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Meaning no disrespect, but Angel's take sounds like advice from a non-Scorpio woman to another typical woman. As a lifelong, bread-in-the-bone Scorpio there are things you should know:
_ First: Do you understand the difference between your garden variety ocean waves and a tsunami? No? Watch some video's about it. Now. Some will think they can play their usual romantic games and "surf" the emotions of a Scorpio, but passionate Scorpio's is likely to arrive as a tsunami. There might be playful waves later. However, until you've watched THE WHOLE OCEAN rise up and come after you, for miles of coastline in both directions ... well, at that point you'll better understand and appreciate your Scorpio.
_ Buyer beware: Scorpio's are not toys for amateurs. They are the most intensely loving, passionate, loyal, sensual, ... and potentially sarcastic, evil, vindictive natural disaster ever to be found in the zodiac. They require dedicated care and feeding to remain happy! Once you earn their loyalty your relationship is gold, but don't dare to toy with them (yes, I'm looking at YOU Aries) or you might lose something important (see Matthew 8:12, 13:42). Seriously, if you can't commit to an honest, loyal, sensual, passionate romp-of-an-existence with your loyal Scorpio then save yourself now and don't even start. You really don't want an irritated Scorpio lurking for years and waiting to get even.
SO, are you brave? Willing to go for the brass ring? Well then, good on you mate!
1) "Make him chase you a little". Not usually a good idea. Consider that 95% of grown, confident men DON'T find a chase appealing. Scorpio's even less so. Why? Scorpios tend to read minds on a subconscious level all of the time, and sometimes consciously. Attempting to lead one on or intentionally spoon-feed them a story about Who You Are isn't likely to end well. Translation: they will increasingly believe less of what you say and do, and either use you for entertainment or move on.
2) "Flirt with him" - yep, that should work.
3) "Be mysterious" - That's up there with "Make him case you a little" and not advised.
4) "Have deep talks about interesting subjects" - Oh yes, do that!
5) "Give him compliments" - yes!
6) "Show him that you’re loyal and consistent" - Very important
7) "Be honest to build his trust" - very important
8) "Accept him without judgment" - Love or hate them, they will be what they are. Do NOT go in thinking you're going to improve them or round off the rough edges. You have been warned.
9) "Give him space" - Yes, Scorpio's need time to process all of the information they absorbed during the day, so when they get home they're going to need some quiet time for processing.
10) "Let him contact you first" - As with #1 and #3, this is for ladies looking for players. Seriously, knowing everything I just shared with you, doesn't this sound just a little dangerous? If you want him, show him. It's that simple.
11) "Try not to focus on your appearance too much" - Unless your evening will be at a formal function ***take this to heart***. This is strong advice for almost any relationship with a man.
12) "Rein in your jealousy" - What she describes is usually accurate. Most Scorpio's are "White Hat"/ wannabe hero's, though some are just evil. Rarely will you find one ambiguous. Don't betray one though. That can go very badly.
13) "Be open to trying new things in the bedroom" - Definitely, and make sure YOU initiate! While they're usually in need of a nice romp, Fun And Frolic are the key! Chase them around the kitchen and pounce! Wake up early and go for a ride! Jump up on the counter, use the arm of a sturdy sofa, a rocking chair, the stairs, under the stars on a cool night on a blanket somewhere private, at interesting destinations with large comfy beds / fire place / masseuse / Jacuzzi, ... show him love and passion and he'll be your very own white knight.
Does it matter what Zodiac sign they are? If they're not interested, they're not interested
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