11 Ways to Talk Dirty to a Sagittarius Man to Drive Him Wild

Expert tips for sexting and talking dirty to a Sagittarius guy

Co-authored by Julia Topaz and Maryana Lucia Vestic, MFA, M.Phil.

Last Updated: August 25, 2025 Fact Checked

Every passionate romance with a Sagittarius man should include some dirty talk. While it can take time to get the hang of it, talking dirty is a great way to have fun and connect with your Sag guy. Open-minded, confident, and expressive, a Sagittarius will love hearing you talk dirty in the bedroom—and return the favor with enthusiasm. Read on for 11 fun and flirty ways you can introduce dirty talk to your love life in person and over text, with expert tips from astrologers and a sex educator.

How to Talk Dirty to a Sagittarius Man

Ask him what he likes.
Tell him what you enjoy.
Be spontaneous.
Text him as foreplay.
Keep it playful.
Encourage his dominant side.
Initiate intimacy outside the bedroom.
Try new things in your sex life.

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Ask him what he likes.

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A confident Sagittarius will want to be open about intimacy. He may have specific words or names that he likes to hear in bed, and the key to successful dirty talk is tailoring it to your partner's needs. Listen to his desires, and use that knowledge in the bedroom (and outside of it) in the future.
- Is there anything you want to try? I want to make you feel good.
- Are there any names you like to be called? Let's have as much fun as we can with this.
Meet the wikiHow Experts

Danielle Bezalel is a sex educator whose podcast, Sex Ed With DB, provides smart, science-backed sex education.

Julia Topaz is an astrologer who integrates psychology in her astrology practice and focuses on what patterns in a chart say about a person’s psyche.

Angel Eyedealism is an astrologer who specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography.

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Tell him what you enjoy.

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A Sagittarius man appreciates partners who know what they want and ask for it. Although he generally tends to be more dominant, a Sag responds well to a little guidance. When you show him what you like, be patient (but not condescending). Keep the atmosphere light and fun as he figures out the best ways to please you; use dirty talk to learn more about and enjoy one another.^{[1]
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- I can't wait to feel your hands all over me.
- I love it when you touch my [body part] just like that.
- I want you to pin me against the wall and….

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Be spontaneous.

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Sagittarius loves to be caught up in the heat of the moment, so surprise him. Astrologer Julia Topaz also says, “Sagittarius men do tend to like a woman who is comfortable being led toward spontaneous activities.”^{[2]
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Expert Interview} Chances are, your Sagittarius doesn't plan bedroom encounters anyway; he prefers to let whims and attraction guide him. Sagittarius men have a high sex drive and get bored easily, so the spur-of-the-moment dirty talk is a great way to keep him entertained and desperate for more.^{[3]
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- I want you so bad, here and now.
- I've been trying to wait until tonight, but I need you too much.
- What if I told you that you could have me right now?
- Carry over this spontaneity to what you wear in the bedroom. A Sagittarius loves to admire thighs and legs, so don’t be afraid to wear sexy lingerie when you’re practicing your best dirty talk.

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Text him as foreplay.

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Appeal to his spontaneous nature and play out fantasies over the phone. Steamy texting sessions and phone sex are great ways to keep the heat up in a relationship—your Sagittarius will be quick to pick up any flirty vibes you give off. Encourage his imagination to run wild when you text your Sag man; give him a scenario and tell him that he can "do" whatever he wants with you next.
- I've been planning out what we'll do in bed all week. It's going to blow your mind🤯.
- I'm thinking about the last time we were together. It felt so good🔥🔥!
- If you get here in 20 minutes, we can do that thing you're always asking about 😍.
- Sex educator Danielle Bezalel believes that talking dirty over text is “an opportunity to craft a message that feels less awkward. Sending dirty texts can also build up anticipation for when you do see them in person.”^{[4]
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Keep it playful.

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Your fun-loving Sagittarius doesn't want to take everything so seriously. He'll enjoy dirty talk if you relax, laugh, and show him your goofy side. That doesn't mean foreplay or sex can't be passionate between you—on the contrary, fiery Sagittarius is known for his passion and enthusiasm. It just means that he thinks of intimacy as a fun pastime and not a deeply emotional, serious moment.^{[5]
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- Do you like sales? Because clothes are 100% off at my place.
- Your body is 70% water, and I'm thirsty!
- This bed isn’t warm enough for me. It’s time you came over and heated me up.
- Acknowledge when something funny happens and laugh it off. It won't spoil the mood! Sagittarius men are attracted to people with a sense of humor.

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Encourage his dominant side.

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Sagittarius men love to take control in the bedroom. If you're comfortable taking a more submissive role, use dirty talk to inspire his naturally dominant Sagittarius personality. Suggest positions that put him in the more dominant role, which he'll eagerly agree to. Let him know how much you enjoy it when he takes control, and he'll be happy to do it again next time.
- You can have your way with me tonight.
- It's such a turn-on when you dominate me.
- Tell me what you want me to wear tonight.

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Initiate intimacy outside the bedroom.

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Indulge his love of adventure by turning up the heat in new places. Rather than reserving your best dirty talk for the bedroom, show your Sagittarius that you're comfortable getting steamy elsewhere—such as the shower, another room in the house, the car, or a private spot outdoors. Just the suggestion of getting intimate outside the bedroom will turn on your Sagittarius!
- Let's take a shower together.
- Wanna go for a picnic? I'll be the dessert.
- Take me right here—I can't wait until we get upstairs.

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Try new things in your sex life.

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A Sagittarius's adventurous spirit also means they love to experiment. Don’t be shy when it comes to trying something new. You can suggest toys, games, and activities to enjoy when getting intimate together. A Sagittarius man is open to trying anything once, and he'll love having a partner who is just as active and fearless in the bedroom as he is.^{[6]
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- Let's try a new position. I want to know what this one feels like.
- I got some sexy dice. Let's roll them and see what happens tonight!
- Ever tried role play? What if I called you "sir" for the rest of the night?

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Be direct and show your daring side.

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Match his confidence with bold and clear language. Professional astrologer Angel Eyedealism notes that a Sagittarius man “appreciates an honest and direct approach.”^{[7]
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Expert Interview} You don't have to be subtle or drop hints with him; dive in and let him know what you're thinking, whether you're teasing him or right in the heat of the moment. The more plainspoken you are, the more turned on he'll be.
- So that you know, I'm thinking about last night…and want to do all of that again.
- I get so weak when I think about my skin against yours.
- I can't get enough of you in the bedroom.

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Get creative with your word choice.

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An open-minded Sagittarius won't mind a downright filthy partner. Other signs might have limits with dirty talk or consider explicit language crass, but a Sagittarius man will love all of it. Be as vivid as you can with descriptions and scenarios. The raunchier the language, the more fun your Sagittarius man will have.
- What would you do if you were in a room with me, a single lit candle, a soft carpet, and nothing else?
- Tell me your dirtiest fantasy. I'll tell you mine.
- I’m home and have decided not to wear anything until you get here!

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Give positive affirmations.

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Your Sagittarius is an alpha male, but he's also a giver in the bedroom. Knowing that you're feeling turned on is also a huge turn-on for him, so vocalize your pleasure. Tell him when he's doing something particularly satisfying! If you're not used to doing this, work your way up from gasps and moans to a simple "yes" or "that's good" before getting more specific.
- Mm, I missed this.
- You feel so right.
- Keep going!
- It feels so good when you touch me.

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Basic pointers how to dirty talk?

WikiLemmingFlyer757

I (m33) have been with my gf (f34) for 2 years now. We both want to spice things up in the bedroom a little more with some dirty talk, but neither of us has much experience with it and it feels pretty unnatural so far. Is it possible to get better at it? Is it supposed to get fun and feel less awkward/strange at some point? Any tips welcome.

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